The Best S*x Apps
A collection of sexy apps, for sexy people, wanting to do sexy things . . .
Ferly
Let’s dive into the world of Ferly, an app that promises to spice up your intimate life with a mix of mindfulness and sensuality. You start by taking a couple of short quizzes to determine your sexual wellness score to help the app choose specific content and challenges for you. It provides access to sex therapy courses and guided exercises for “ women and folx with vulvas to have better sex “. Their courses and coaching include topics like Sex After Trauma, Body Confidence, and An Erotic Mindset. They also have guided audio sessions all about exploring your sensuality and improving your relationship with your own body as well as sensual stories. According to reviews, people with a history of SA have found success using the app to help them restore confidence and comfort in intimacy.
Paid w/ 7-Day Free Trial. Membership starting at £12.99 /month for continued access.
Dipsea
Dipsea is a women owned and operated app creating romantic audio for the female gaze. From the creators “ we set off to build something new: audio-first, short-ish format, always safe – and female gaze, front and center “. With over 1000 stories and a ton of categories like Queer Stories, Fantasy & Historical, Extra Spicy & BDSM, you have a ton to choose from. In addition to audiobooks they also have moaning and overheard audios, sleep scenes and stories which includes just sounds like rainfall and thunderstorms, digital books, and sexual wellness education. A great download to support women-owned business and their mission to bring the female gaze to romance stories.
Paid w/ 30-Day Free Trial
Feeld
On its face it might seem like a simple dating app like all the others however as the website states “Feeld’s ever-evolving platform creates safer, more inclusive spaces online and IRL for everyone to express and explore gender, sexuality, and desire outside of existing blueprints”. In fact, I highly recommend checking out their about page where they really beautifully explain their intention for creating the app and the values behind it. Encompassing polyamory, consensual non-monogamy, homo- and heteroflexibility, pansexuality, asexuality, aromanticism, voyeurism, and kink, Feeld is incredibly inclusive. You create a profile including the basics like photos, age, gender, sexuality, interests, and about but then you can also add your desires. Desired relationships, three-ways & groups, and kinks. You can also link your partner/s to your profile. Then you get to swiping. Now, these profiles aren’t as in depth as other apps which I would guess is to inspire conversation and not superficial exclusion. You dole out likes to get matches, there are paid options for ‘pings’, revealing your likes, or to ‘uplift your profile’ which makes your profile more visible to people for 24 hours. A fabulous app for creating unique connections!
Free w/ paid options. Membership starting at $13.99 gets you unlimited likes per day (40 for free), one free ping a day, and seeing who likes you.
Spicer
A question-filled app for couples to get to know each other better, spice things up a little, and learn yourself! You are initially presented a stack of questions that you can mark YES, NO, or MAYBE and the ability to link your partner so you can both answer the questions and find your matches. You can add different questions ‘packs’. The app automatically starts you on the basics with questions like “ call partner obscene words (bitch, slut, whore etc) “ and “ have sex while on period “. You can also get Advanced, Bonus, Daily Questions, and Plus Questions packs for free. Advanced pack 1-7 and Roleplay packs are behind the paywall. You and your partner can also add your own questions. If you create an account the app will create lists based on how you’ve answered. In addition to your ‘matches’ list you will also get ‘maybe’, ‘open’, ‘done’, ‘mood’, ‘wishlist’, and ‘challenge’ then discuss them through the app’s chat feature. Another function of the app is being able to send each other dares, again, some are free, you can create your own, or you can buy some. Sort of Tinder-esque in the amount of swiping but fun nonetheless. Overall, I think if you have difficulty talking about sex or are inexperienced then this would be a great tool for starting those conversations.
Free w/ paid options and add-ons.
Sex Tracker by Nice
So I have known people who keep a list in their notes app or in their journal and I’ve seen the people who keep track and make a powerpoint wrap-up at the end of the year for tiktok, but now there is an official app for keeping track of your sex life! Down to all the nitty-gritty details. The free version allows you to add calendar entries for all of your sexual encounters and include time, date, ‘activities’ (anal, hj, oral, sex, masturbation), protection use, duration, and notes. You can see your logged stats and if you want to keep even more information, the premium version allows you to keep track of partners, orgasms, ratings, tags, locations, and STDs/pregnancies tests. If you are a person who is sexually active with multiple and changing partners this could be a really responsible and helpful resource to have or download just for funsies! Also if you are worried about storing personal data, the premium version allows you to lock the app with passcode or FaceID and import or export data (they don’t collect private info or store data in the cloud).
Free w/ paid premium option with all features. Not a subscription, $9.99 to own.
